A Little Reminder To Know You Are Always Enough ♡

I always over think things. my mind is always rushing with thoughts, dreams & worries. We are our worst critics and sometimes we just need to take a step back & look at the bigger picture and realise we're being too hard on ourselves.

Am I Enough?
This is always on my mind, I'm still on the journey of finding myself & being happy, including choosing my dream career which is a tad bit stressful because I'm not sure what i want to do and if I'm capable of doing it - i do have one thing in mind: Creative & Digital Media.
There have been alot of times where I'm like I'm not good enough to be doing this which is why i don't try. It's a whole cycle of self doubt, not brave enough, not pretty enough, not outspoken enough, not kind enough, my writing isn't good enough or my opinion doesn't matter enough

I'm sure I'm not alone on this, we all feel like this from time to time. There's also a possibility i could be helping/inspiring someone to know they aren't alone.

Why Do We Feel Like We Aren't Enough?
self pressure and constant comparison of ourselves to other people. We tend to compare our beginnings to other peoples success & the behind the scenes to the perfectly filtered feed of someone else's life. 
There's always someone better than us and doing more. Personally i lack self confidence and have high standards which is where it gets difficult and it makes it easier to feel like I'm not enough in certain situations life throws, sticking out like a sore thumb.

How Can We Overcome That Feeling?
It's okay to feel like you are not enough sometimes. We are all human, we all have insecurities and i think its impossible to feel confident all the time.And we can doing a few things to stop that unpleasant feeling.
We can try to stop comparing because the only thing we can keep comparing to is ourselves. Comparing ourselves to who we were yesterday as from today? Improve you own well being, focus on yourself and where you want to go.

If we don't like something we can change it. Personally i would like to be a journalist or something along those lines maybe even a producer being in control of your projects and other things, creating something that will inspire others one day and instead of feeling sorry for myself because i don't think I'm good enough for something like that, i can learn more & improve it. But there are things i can't change, so i need to learn to accept and embrace them as a part of me.

And for those reading this, just know you are enough, you are important and you are worthy. Exactly as you are. Don't let anyone tell you different, even yourself. Remember its up to us to know our worth and to be our first supporters

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